WHAT IS LOVE?
Different people define love in different way, as their experience but I think personally, if you have a good partner love its like a heaven and if you don’t get right partner its like hell.
WHY TO BREAK-UP?
first of all try to understand that we shouldn’t breakup everytime or in short fight we have come in relationship in mutual agreement that we will spend life together, but here what we are doing we are coming in relationship just to break- up? If you had come relationship to breakup why you did spend all the those days together? If you had come to breakup, you must break-up right away after accepting the proposal, because that’s what you wanted.
REASONS FOR BREAK-UP
SITUATION 1 – WE TRY TO CHANGE OUR PARTNER
Try to understand that both the partner comes from different background man and women both, and no one can change themselfves easily , don’t try to fit your partner as per your culture or background, we both girl and boy try to do that, in starting we change but later on we feel like that we are in control and then we argue or end up as a breakup.
solution – So what to do?
Don’t do anything don’t try to fit your partner as per your rules or background .If u had come in relationship you love him or her then , so if u love him earlier Can’t you love him or her now ?why you want to change your partner? and it doesn’t mean keep on living in suffocation.
Sometimes we don’t like someones habit and before coming in relationship we were not aware about that , that’s a exceptional case you must share that thing with your partner and tell that you have problem with that. If you don’t like anything in your partner you must share but don’t argue on that and if its a small thing it can be acceptable just share but don’t tell to be change, you partner will automatically try to change himself or herself if you don’t like that habit.
SITUATION 2 – WE DON’T LISTEN TO OUR PARTNER CAREFULLY
Listening is the main key of everyone’s heart. Listen your partner carefully, then speak let them speak first. So many times our partner share their problem. It doesn’t mean they need advice , if you just listen you make a special place in their heart. after listening if you had advice you can give.
SITUATION 3 – SOMETIMES ARE PARTNER BLAME US
Don’t argue this time, everything is ok. If your partner blaming you sometimes they are not blaming, they are just sharing their problem to work out. If your partner had to blame you, they won’t be talking to you and sharing to you, and your partner sharing this to improve relationship.
SOLUTION – WHAT TO DO?
Don’t blame back after sometime your partner will get ok after that you can talk about solution. Don’t misunderstand.
SITUATION 4 – SOMETIMES YOUR PARTNER WANT TO BE ALONE
Personally, someone special in life taught me that , sometime after an argument your partner need to be alone. so give your partner time as much as they want.
SITUATION 5 – HAVING ARGUMENTS
Having arguments shows healthy relationship, it ok to have arguments, but don’t take it for long, when you think argument is going unhealthy stop talking and take sometime after that you can talk and everything will be alright
while getting solution I saw a post where I read a couple who never fought but end up. They divorced each other.
SITUATION 6 – WE GAVE EVERYTHING BUT OUR PARTNER THINK WE DON’T LOVE
Try to understand man and women have different need, men give what he want and women give what she want, and we assume that we both have same need. talk to your partner about needs and work on it.
DON’T GIVE UP RELATIONSHIP WHEN SITUATION GETS WORST. WE COME IN RELATIONSHIP THINKING THAT OUR PARTNER WILL SUPPORT US WHEN WE ARE IN WORST TIME. SO YOUR PARTNER WANT THE SAME. SUPPORT YOUR PARTNER THAT TIME.
SHOW YOUR PARTNER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE. BUT DON’T DO IT OVER, SOMETIMES SWEETNESS CAUSE DIABETES. AND YOUR PARTNER DON’T FEEL THAT MUCH LOVE IF YOU SHOW THEM EVERYTIME
WHAT TO DO ? WHEN YOU ARE NOT HAPPY IN RELATIONSHIP
Share the reason with your partner why you are not filling happy with him or her, and he or she have to work on it, and they will since they want you happy to if he or she loves you, but when it get high time and they keep on doing same thing and you don’t feel happy , you must move on. Because everyone come in a relationship to be happy not to be sad, Don’t miss understand my words, sometimes we feel sad , we miss or your partner is busy or you have an argument it doesn’t mean you should move on, wait for your partner always.
PART 2 WILL COME SOON WITH MORE SITUATION AND SOLUTIONS.